You may find that British people have a more liberal attitude towards sex and relationships than you’re used to. Being British, naturally, we don’t like to talk about it! However, if you have any concerns or questions, please contact the Health Centre and speak to a nurse.
If you decide to have a sexual relationship, then it is important that you understand some of the implications.
Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs) are very easy to catch and pass on. They can be very dangerous and do not always have symptoms. Common STIs are Chlamydia, Syphilis, Herpes and HIV. The only way to protect yourself against getting an STI is to use a condom every time you have sex. Most STIs can be easily treated with antibiotics from the doctor. The University health centres offer screening for some sexually transmitted infections. Condoms are easily purchased from chemists, public toilets, supermarkets and petrol stations and they can also be obtained free of charge from the University's health centres and local family planning clinics.
Pregnancy - one of the most common consequences of having sex is getting pregnant. If you’re here with a partner then this can be a very happy time for you and the health centre will be able to help you and put you in touch with ante-natal clinics (services for pregnant women to check on the baby, the mother and to help you with any questions/ problems you might have). Ante-natal comes from Latin and literally means “before birth.” Once the baby is born you become post-natal – “after birth.”
If you don’t want to get pregnant then you can make an appointment to see the nurse or doctor to discuss contraception. The most common contraceptives are condoms and the pill. The pill works by changing the way some of your hormones work so that you cannot become pregnant - this only happens while you take the pill. Once you stop taking it, you’ll be able to get pregnant.
If you have sex without contraception, there’s an emergency measure call the morning-after pill. This can be taken up to 72 hours after sex. If you discover that you are pregnant and you’re unhappy about it then you must see the doctor immediately. Abortions are legal in the UK up to 24 weeks (this might change to 20). However, a doctor can refuse to refer you if they object to abortion for moral reasons.